Internet or Real Life

January 19, 2008

It is sadly to accept that I love my internet life than my real life. It used to be that my real life was happy but since when I got married and arrived in the USA, my life is getting boring. I love my children, husband and I am happy with my marriage life but it seems like it’s different.

On the internet, I have many friends. I am more interesting because I get a lot of time to say and write something about myself. Surfing in the internet is a lot of fun especially when I am making money for blog advertising.

In my real life, I don’t have friends. Most of the time, I am stuck in my house. Life is boring. I have no stories to tell because I have no friends. No job, no way to make friends. I hate myself.

I like my online life more than my real life.

36 comments:

Wilson Pon said...

Hello, my friend...a regular visit and have a great weekend...

idealpinkrose said...

sabi nga ng boss ko pag nag asawa na mawawala raw ang mga friends kasi iba na ang mundo natin...i think that's true...ok lang sis, mas priority kasi natin ang pamilya...

Sheilalu said...

hello sexymom... In due time you will find friends there in the U.S.A

jessie said...

really? totoo ba yan, fren?

My Daily Thoughts said...

im happy with my married life but like u i love my internet life than my real life. i have too many people at work here in canada that make my life annoying. i feel good when iam at home with my family and when im on the internet

PakTeh said...

don't worry sexymom.

we can always make friends whenever we want, wherever we are.

in real life, friends start from our neighbourhood.

FRANCINE said...

pssst, we're just right here for you so cheer up *muah*

PuTLie said...

i love my internet life too... cant live without internet :D

Yen said...

Don't worry you are not alone:) I sure love my internet life too!

A Simple Life said...

Hi Sexy mom! Thanks for always visiting me ;)

Ok lang yan, ako rin I never thought I'd be so hooked here, hehe, actually parang I have more friends here than in real life, I don't go out often kase and most of my friends are in the US na rin.

Have a great week ahead.

Amel's Realm said...

Why don't you join a club or something? When I first moved to Finland, I went to Finland Forum for Expats and put on a notice there to find out if there were foreigners in Sodankylä. After all, Sodankylä is a small village, not even a town!!! And I found a good friend through such a forum. We don't meet too often, but we email each other pretty often. :-)))

I'm personally a bit of a loner and an introvert, so I don't like parties and I don't like socializing too much, but still it's good to have at least one good friend near me. :-)))

I hope you'll have friends in real life, too. :-)))) At least one.

♥ ChaLyza ♥ said...

hello thanks for the visit...i'm just paying u back..tc

Rickavieves said...

hello friend, am here visiting u back.

Wish u have a great new week and to ur family around!

Nora P. said...

thanks for stopping by. have a nice sunday! Anyway, can you please add my other blog? link http://norasfamilytreasures.com/ added u there already..

Amy said...

hi sexy mom, thank u for the visit. have a nice week ahead:)

Rosemarie said...

hi sexymom thanks for dropping, why not try to be friends to some filipina near by

JOY said...

How are you friend?thank you for including mypage with your rounds huh? And please vote me too!

Ibyang Sanchez said...

having friends takes time. don't worry, di magtatagal magkakaroon ka na rin ng circle of friends mo dyan...in that way, maba-balance na rin ang internet at real life mo =)

Scotty's Princess said...

Hi, salamat sa message girl, appreciate it tons & tons. And what a very interesting post, it has caught my attention. Keep smiling girl and stay happy ;-)

Do let ur votes be counted in for me pala sis. I'll be counting on you, thanks so much!

Scotty's Princess said...

I understand what u must be feeling girl, it would take time for u to adjust, bide ur time for now and keep yourself busy...

Ethyl Alcohol said...

Oh, that's sad. It's good to have online friends, but I think it's much better to gain friends in real life. Just like what scotty said, it takes time for you to adjust. Just try to be friendly with your neighbors, smiling at them whenever you pass by, and you'll gain friends for sure. :)

Earvin said...

Ako OK lang. Maganda din ang Interent pero para sa akin mas maganda ang real life. Kasi nagfu-function ang 5 senses, sa internet kasi dalawa lang (sight and hearing). Hehehe. Siguro SexyMom try mong magstart ng isang bagong hobby. Hehehe.

ghee said...

Hi there!i stumbled upon your site through Pepe`s blog,your blog`s name is familiar. :)

i can relate so well...my daughter keeps on telling me...why dont you go out and enjoy yourself?i do go out sometimes,but internet is my life everytime.

happy blogging!

Happy Monday !!

ghee

retchel said...

hi sexymom, very interesting yong post mo...ganyan din ako dati when I 1st came here , but when I got a job yong time ko nahati na..maybe u can meet some friends from your church

Mec said...

i depend on my internet friends a lot too... since most of my real friends are way too busy.... then again, my internet friends have become real friends as well :) i guess that's the beauty of friendship, no matter what shape it takes, it still comforts one's soul...

Bry said...

hi sexy mom! do u wanna try ur luck at DELL? just tell me and i can refer u to our talent acquisitions team!

have a great day! :p

Joliber P. Mapiles said...

hello sexy mom, i'm very much willing to be your friend both online and offline..

Hailey's Beats and Bits said...

in due time you'll adjust.

Ylan said...

hi sexy mom! :) cheer up! :)

LivingSouL said...

Cheer up ate! :) this might help. give it your husband :)

3 Responsibilities of a Man in a Relationship

sasha said...

In all honesty, most bloggers feel that way, SexyMom. I do feel that way at times. Even if I have my offline friends, mas laging andyan ang online friends eh, esp. the bloggers. And life can indeed be more interesting because of interaction with co-bloggers.

Cheer up! The melancholy will surely pass :)

Happy Monday!

P.S. Pwede kayang makipa-link nitong new blog ko? http://myownutopia.info thanks! :)

jazevox said...

karamihan sa kilala ko dito, live far from me, so its only once in awhile that I got the chance to really see or talk to them too...kaya keeping busy working on our family plans and dreams help keep me busy and sane..

hope we can xlinks, and see you around more often

milet said...

i'm just bloghopping and was able to read your entry. in some ways we have similar thoughts about our life now. the only difference is im here in the philippines while you are somewhere across the world.

i think marriage and motherhood changes everything. especially when you are a stay at home mom.

cheer up! there are a lot of stay at home moms who does not have the luxury of the internet wherein they can vent and rant and there is someone to console them. we are still on the luckier side you know ?

and i know eventually you will be able to meet some friends there.

milet

http://belles-lettresofmilet.romelettedlopez.com/

p.s. care for an exchange link ?

Tony said...

Ah, don't be sad. You'll find friends in time. My wife goes through the same thing. She wants to get out to work but earns at home so she really never leaves the house. Try some volunteer work. That would help you meet people and do something great at the same time.

Sunshine4Life said...

hello just dropping by. am touched by this post. sana makakita ka ng maraming frends jan.

am happy with my virtual world too -- it is more masaya than the real one. virtual frneds makes me laugh and smile more and cry just little. ung dito they make me angry and sad and crazy. hahahaha

Jillian said...

Not sure if my last comment got through or not. Sometimes my internet has a mind of its own. But I was going to say that this post was very honest and speaks to what a lot of people experience.

There's nothing at all with the way you feel. The internet is a great tool for meeting people and making good friends. It allows you to meet people from all over the world and form lasting bonds!

Anyways, I like my online life as much as my "real life"... they both offer different things that I need.

Nice blog, and I'll be back.

-Jillian